Conversation starters

“Can you tell me what you like?”

“How about we try...?”

“Can I tell you what I think could make our sex life even better?”

“Is there anything you've thought about trying but never have?”

“It's something we've never tried... how do you feel about it?”

“You know what I've always wanted to try...?”

“I liked doing this - but not... that. Can we talk about it?”

“I know there are things you don't want to do and I respect that. What's a no-no for you?”

“There are lots of things I'd like us to try, but I really don't want to...”

“Can we talk about something before we have sex?”

“Fancy helping me put this on?”

“I'd like us to go further, do you feel ready?”

“How long do you think people should wait before they have sex?”

“Mind if we find other ways to have fun? I'm not ready to go further right now.”

“I want to take things slow. Are you ok with that?”

“This is all going a bit fast - mind if we don't rush things?”